Sunday, February 28, 2016

Sunday Morning Service (II Samuel 19:40-II Samuel 20)


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"Offense And Defense"  •  2.21.16  •  Calvary Christian Fellowship, Sunday Morning Service
Intro
- It hasn't been long since David had secured Israel's willing agreement to return him to his rightful throne. All of the work had been done, except for the physical return to Jerusalem.
- Incredibly, as the procession moves toward Jerusalem, everything that has been worked for, falls to pieces! Verse 40.
Text
• II Samuel 19:40-43 : "Now the king went on to Gilgal, and Chimham went on with him. And all the people of Judah escorted the king, and also half the people of Israel. Just then all the men of Israel came to the king, and said to the king, 'Why have our brethren, the men of Judah, stolen you away and brought the king, his household, and all David’s men with him across the Jordan?' So all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, 'Because the king is a close relative of ours. Why then are you angry over this matter? Have we ever eaten at the king’s expense? Or has he given us any gift?' And the men of Israel answered the men of Judah, and said, 'We have ten shares in the king; therefore we also have more right to David than you. Why then do you despise us—were we not the first to advise bringing back our king?' Yet the words of the men of Judah were fiercer than the words of the men of Israel." : David, with Chimham alongside of him, walked with the people of Judah and half the people of Israel, presumably those who had not sided with Absalom.
- There were several people from Israel, even from Saul's tribe who supported the King during his exile, especially after witnessing Absalom's actions on David's rooftop.
- Here, these people of Israel join David's tribe and are walking peacefully back toward Jerusalem. And then comes this odd and sudden interruption signaled by the phrase "just then."
- Out of the blue and out of nowhere, all the men of Israel, those that the King had negotiated with and who were newly reconciled, arrived with this strange accusation.
- They are upset that they have been left out of the "Welcome home" parade! They thought that Judah was attempting to sneak David away without involving them.
- Judah's actions were entirely reasonable. David was a member of their tribe. "He is our family member. Why should you be angry about that?"
- They are asking if they wouldn't do the same if their brother had been in exile. Certainly they would have. This was a normal enough scenario.
- But then, Judah decided to pour gasoline on the burgeoning flame. "Have we ever eaten at the King's expense? Has he given us any gift?"
- Apparently they had not yet read Proverbs 15:1 and the soft answer that turns away wrath or Ephesians 4:29, and the foregoing of corrupting speech for the blessing of grace to the hearer!
- The men of Israel lived with the suspicion that they were uninvited because they were outsiders. Judah lived with the resentment that accompanied David's conciliatory acts toward them.
- David had just gifted the people of Israel, the rebels, with a position within his army for Amasa. At this point, with the accusations flying, Israel responded with further escalation.
- They had 10 shares, ie. 10 tribes that had invested in David's Kingdom. "There are more of us and we had the idea to bring him back first!"
- As things digressed, Judah remained resolute, not giving an inch. The sense is that none of these people were willing to be sensible! They had the King they all wanted. Why not just relax?
- With their arrangement teetering on the edge, it only takes one man to tear at the string that held them together. Verse 1.
• II Samuel 20:1,2 : "And there happened to be there a rebel, whose name was Sheba the son of Bichri, a Benjamite. And he blew a trumpet, and said: 'We have no share in David, nor do we have inheritance in the son of Jesse; Every man to his tents, O Israel!' So every man of Israel deserted David, and followed Sheba the son of Bichri. But the men of Judah, from the Jordan as far as Jerusalem, remained loyal to their king." : We noted the "just then" in the last section. Note here that "there happened to be there a rebel!" How about that!?
- And such are the Kingdoms of men, who are subject to the "just then" circumstances and the coincidental "happenings."
- Just like that, this bitter disagreement devolved into a full blown rebellion and it only took one rebel, a man of Belial to blow a trumpet for division!
- Sheba, a Benjamite, made a proclamation which finally polarized the opposing sides. "We aren't included by them. They aren't for us!"
- In typical mob rhetoric, Sheba says "We have no share in David." Wait a minute? They had just said that they had 10 shares in David? All of a sudden there isn't any share?
- The NLT puts it like this: "Down with the dynasty of David! We have no interest in the son of Jesse." With this simple rallying cry the troops that had celebrated David, deserted him!
- Every benefit that they believed to possess in David, was forgotten in this moment.
- If they could not have what they wanted in that moment, they would have nothing at all! How petulant and fickle!
- This is why one should never build their lives or their call upon the opinions of people! These people loved David just a few verses ago! A few sentences later and they are in rebellion!
- We don't have any interest in David, the son of Jesse. He's not even the King in their eyes! He's just the son of a farmer! Every man to his tents, the cry to separate from the King.
- When they did separate from the King, they immediately joined themselves to Sheba!
- What qualifications does he have? What will he build with? All he has proven is that he is good at tearing at the unity of this people. He has no acumen to lead.
- But let there be no surprise: When God has affected a reconciliation, know that the enemy will send a rebel to ruin it! Thankfully, we don't have to focus on that. Note the next phrase.
- "Judah remained loyal to David." They were not the majority, but they were on the right side.
- They had not chosen the clear winner, but it is recorded that they never changed their allegiance. Your obedience in a world of rebellion is worth far more that you could ever imagine!
• II Samuel 20:3 : "Now David came to his house at Jerusalem. And the king took the ten women, his concubines whom he had left to keep the house, and put them in seclusion and supported them, but did not go in to them. So they were shut up to the day of their death, living in widowhood." : With a full blown rebellion outside, David returns to his home to find his legal mistresses still in the throes of their sadness.
- David's concubines bore the scars of Absalom's rage issuing in certain grief and trauma.
- The text lets us know that David placed them under protective custody, away from the public eye for the sake of their shame.
- One translation suggests that David set a guard over them, which is likely true, but misses the sentiment. There is tenderness and sensitivity in David's action.
- He did not want them exposed to any more shame. He honored them by assigning sentries to them who attended to their comfort.
- David cared for and sheltered them but never re-established relations with them. Some of his previous sin had found expression in these women. Here, David shows that he is making a break.
- Concubines existed for sexual pleasure and increasing the royal family. David has made the decision not to return to that particular sin.
- He owned up to his responsiblity, assigning their care to their death, but he would remove himself from the temptation. Once that is setled, he turns his attention back toward Sheba.
•  II Samuel 20:4-7 : "And the king said to Amasa, 'Assemble the men of Judah for me within three days, and be present here yourself.' So Amasa went to assemble the men of Judah. But he delayed longer than the set time which David had appointed him. And David said to Abishai, 'Now Sheba the son of Bichri will do us more harm than Absalom. Take your lord’s servants and pursue him, lest he find for himself fortified cities, and escape us.' So Joab’s men, with the Cherethites, the Pelethites, and all the mighty men, went out after him. And they went out of Jerusalem to pursue Sheba the son of Bichri." : David made good on making Amasa, Absalom's captain, his captain. That post had been a necessary concession.
- Israel wanted a sincere gesture from David and David simultaneously, wanted to replace Joab, who had killed his son. Here is his first recorded command to Amasa.
- Amasa is to assemble the troops in Jerusalem in three days time, but it seems that he had some trouble doing so and delayed beyond the Kings' appointed time.
- We are left to speculate as to why Amasa failed in his first duty. I believe that the text will bear out that the troops were hesitant to fall in behind Amasa.
- For Amasa's part, he seems to be in over his head from the very beginning of his narrative. He had led an offensive and lost, despite drastically outnumbering the opposing side!
- In an embarrassing, but necessary move, the King had to ask Abishai to mobilize the troops and move out toward Sheba. Notice, he's still not talking with Joab. Abishai gets the promotion.
- David, like Ahithophel before him, knew that swift action would be needed to stop Sheba. If he got himself into a fortified city, they would have a great deal of trouble extraditing him.
- If Sheba was given the time, he would prevail over David as he had prevailed over Absalom! Abishai didn't need to be told twice.
- He took Joab's men, the special forces of the Cherethites and Pelethites, and went out to pursue Sheba.
• II Samuel 20:8 : "When they were at the large stone which is in Gibeon, Amasa came before them. Now Joab was dressed in battle armor; on it was a belt with a sword fastened in its sheath at his hips; and as he was going forward, it fell out." : A short time after Israel's special forces left, Amasa presented himself before David and found out that the hint had already begun without him.
- Amasa finally catches up with Abishai's men at Large Stone Ave.
- The tension was palpable. This conflict was inevitable. This was about as ackward a moment as one could have. Without anyone talking, Joab went forward to meet him.
- Joab was fully dressed, but allowed his sword to fall to the ground before him as he came closer to his cousin.
• II Samuel 20:9-10a : "Then Joab said to Amasa, 'Are you in health, my brother?' And Joab took Amasa by the beard with his right hand to kiss him. But Amasa did not notice the sword that was in Joab’s hand. And he struck him with it in the stomach, and his entrails poured out on the ground; and he did not strike him again. Thus he died." : "Are you in health my brother? Are you sure!?"
- Joab didn't care about David's appointment. Amasa was a traitor in his eyes. The fact that was unable to follow a simple order, disqualified him from service and justified his action.
- Joab's right hand was lethal, but so was his left hand. Amasa didn't see it coming and the author summarizes that he died from his fairly gory wound.
• II Samuel 20:10b-13 : "Then Joab and Abishai his brother pursued Sheba the son of Bichri. Meanwhile one of Joab’s men stood near Amasa, and said, 'Whoever favors Joab and whoever is for David—follow Joab!' But Amasa wallowed in his blood in the middle of the highway. And when the man saw that all the people stood still, he moved Amasa from the highway to the field and threw a garment over him, when he saw that everyone who came upon him halted. When he was removed from the highway, all the people went on after Joab to pursue Sheba the son of Bichri." : Abishai stepped right aside and let Joab take the lead. Who wouldn't? The man just left his own cousin to die there in the middle of the street!
- Joab had to leave a man there by Amasa as he lay dying to keep people from holding up the traffic. He ralled the arriving troops to Joab, but eventually had to move Amasa to the side of the road.
- With Amasa put to the side, the leadership structure was clear and the pursuit continued.
• II Samuel 20:14,15 : "And he went through all the tribes of Israel to Abel and Beth Maachah and all the Berites. So they were gathered together and also went after Sheba. Then they came and besieged him in Abel of Beth Maachah; and they cast up a siege mound against the city, and it stood by the rampart. And all the people who were with Joab battered the wall to throw it down." : Joab's led a systematic search and landed at city of Abel.
- This was a stronghold area of the Berites, who are only mentioned here in scripture. We don't know for sure who they are, but Joab knew who they were.
- Without hesitation and without communication, the General went on the offensive. He sought to break down the city wall.
• II Samuel 20:16-19 : "Then a wise woman cried out from the city, 'Hear, hear! Please say to Joab, ‘Come nearby, that I may speak with you.’  When he had come near to her, the woman said, 'Are you Joab?' He answered, 'I am.' Then she said to him, 'Hear the words of your maidservant.' And he answered, 'I am listening.' So she spoke, saying, 'They used to talk in former times, saying, ‘They shall surely seek guidance at Abel,’ and so they would end disputes. I am among the peaceable and faithful in Israel. You seek to destroy a city and a mother in Israel. Why would you swallow up the inheritance of the Lord?'" : During the fierce attack upon her city, one woman rose up to communicate with Joab.
- She received a personal audience with the General and explained the history of her city. In the distant past, her city was known as a place to seek guidance and wisdom.
- She embraced that heritage and that cultural identity. Her city was a place to end disputes, not begin them! She was a peacemaker and a lover of God!
- Joab looks at her and listens to her as she accuses him of destroying a city, an inheritance from the Lord. He's taken aback! All he's doing is destroying their wall!
• II Samuel 20:20-23 : "And Joab answered and said, 'Far be it, far be it from me, that I should swallow up or destroy! That is not so. But a man from the mountains of Ephraim, Sheba the son of Bichri by name, has raised his hand against the king, against David. Deliver him only, and I will depart from the city.' So the woman said to Joab, 'Watch, his head will be thrown to you over the wall.' Then the woman in her wisdom went to all the people. And they cut off the head of Sheba the son of Bichri, and threw it out to Joab. Then he blew a trumpet, and they withdrew from the city, every man to his tent. So Joab returned to the king at Jerusalem." : Joab looked at the woman and said, "Me? Violent? C'mon nobody would believe that!?" Yet, he was resolute in letting her know that he would raze her city to the ground for Sheba.
- Joab issued the ultimatum which would bring his action to a peaceful resolution. "Bring out the rebel and we'll leave!" Deliver him, bring him out to us.
- You can almost see the light go on in this woman's eye. "Is that all?" She tells Joab to give her a moment and watch as she gives him the ultimate "heads up!"
- You have to wonder how long this took. What did she have to do? We know that she took all of her wisdom and went to her people.
- The woman didn't go out and force the people, but in her wisdom, went to all the people. She had to persuade, to reason, to share her instinct with her fellow citizens.
- She explained the situation and likely negotiated the man's surrender from wherever he had hidden himself, then she cut off the man's head and she threw it to Joab!
- I just see Joab wanting to get her phone number! "That's my kind of woman!"
- Their quick decisive rational action saved their city. Joab blew his trumpet, the army withdrew and Joab returned with news of victory to the King.
- One man had begun a rebellion and one woman brought it to an end! One commentator offers us an insight that is worth considering.
˚ "Every man's breast is a city enclosed. Every sin is a traitor that lurketh within those walls. God calleth for Sheba's head, neither hath he any quarrel to us for our person, but for our sin. If we love the head of our traitor above the life of our soul, we shall justly perish in the vengeance."             John Trapp
• II Samuel 20:24-26 : "And Joab was over all the army of Israel; Benaiah the son of Jehoiada was over the Cherethites and the Pelethites; Adoram was in charge of revenue; Jehoshaphat the son of Ahilud was recorder; Sheva was scribe; Zadok and Abiathar were the priests; and Ira the Jairite was a chief minister under David." : The author takes a moment to roll the credits on the lead players within David's government. He begins with Joab returning to his previous position. David is stuck with him.
- Benaiah led the special forces. For the first time in the history of the Kingdom, Adoram took charge of the tax system. All these rebellions and internal strivings cost money to deal with!
- Official records were taken care of by Jehoshaphat, while Sheva was in charge of care for the replication of God's Word.
- Zadok and Abiathar, the men who had given aid to David during his exile, remained in their priesthood. But then comes this final appointment which represented a new office in Israel.
- Ira the Jairite was a chief minister under David. The word represents a personal ministerial charge, perhaps even a chaplaincy that David submitted himself to.
- Earlier, we noted that David cared for his concubines, but never resumed relations with them. Likewise, here, David by this appointment, admits his need for personal accountability.
- All that he has just gone through, either with Absalom or with Sheba, had been a consequence of David's sexual sin.
- Removing temptation from your presence is a very effective method of combating temptation on a per temptation basis. Recognizing the need for true accountability helps to make it a habit!
- David, the Psalmist of Israel. David, the man after God's heart. David, the sinner recognized that it wasn't enough to simply quit sinning. He needed a brother to help him to live right.
- Is there an Ira the Jairite in your life who you submit yourself to? If the King of Israel felt the need, we might rightly follow his lead!
Conclusion
- As we close, do you see the symmetry? David has just put down one rebellion and here comes another, both the result of his sin with Bathsheba.
- There are two fronts with the same goal in mind. On the public front, there is militant external fight with rebellion which is swift, focused and brutal, not willing to leave Sheba alive.
- The other is the the private front, which provides distance from sin and opens the door to wise and godly friends. Neither works without the other!
- Let us receive that wisdom and walk in it today! Let us focus on our Lord Jesus, who never rebelled against His Father, but was delivered up for our sin.
- When God poured His wrath against sin out on Him, Jesus didn't just save a city or His own countrymen in time, but every believer that would trust in Him forever!
- Is there a sin that's worth betraying that love? I think not!

Sunday, February 21, 2016

Sunday Morning Service (II Samuel 19:16-39)


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"Judgment, Mercy And Grace"  •  2.21.16  •  Calvary Christian Fellowship, Sunday Morning Service
Intro
- Last week, we witnessed the reconciliation between King David and the people of Israel. Many had shamefully attached themselves to Absalom and had misunderstood David's retreat.
- When David saw their conflict, he initiated and invited Israel to take him back, even offering Amasa his top military post in the place of Joab. The people moved as one to accept his rule again.
- That news spread quickly and was the source of great joy, but there are some loose ends for the King to address with three people who stood out during his exile. Verse 16.
Text
• II Samuel 19:16-18a : "And Shimei the son of Gera, a Benjamite, who was from Bahurim, hurried and came down with the men of Judah to meet King David. There were a thousand men of Benjamin with him, and Ziba the servant of the house of Saul, and his fifteen sons and his twenty servants with him; and they went over the Jordan before the king. Then a ferryboat went across to carry over the king’s household, and to do what he thought good." : A large crowd has gathered at the banks of the Jordan river and within it, you could see a man working feverishly through it.
- He's intently moving through the crowd, eyeing the boat, hoping to be there when it hits the shore on the western edge.
- Shimei, the man who had cursed David on his way out of Jerusalem, anxiously moved to the front of the procession with a thousand Benjamites in tow.
- You'll also note that Ziba and his fifteen sons and twenty servants were there as well. Keep that in your mind as we continue with Shimei.
• II Samuel 19:18b-20 : "Now Shimei the son of Gera fell down before the king when he had crossed the Jordan. Then he said to the king, 'Do not let my lord impute iniquity to me, or remember what wrong your servant did on the day that my lord the king left Jerusalem, that the king should take it to heart. For I, your servant, know that I have sinned. Therefore here I am, the first to come today of all the house of Joseph to go down to meet my lord the king.'" : This is humble pie time! Shimei wastes no time falling on his face before David.
- The last time we saw him, he was standing and throwing dirt and stones at the King as he exited Jerusalem. Now, he can't get close enough to the ground!
- What a difference a few days make! The last time we saw him, he was yelling at a safe distance, virtual obscenities at the King. He had called him a "bloodthirsty man" and a "rogue."
- Here, he calls him "my lord" and acknowledges him as the King! He is even his servant!
- It's important that he comes with a public audience and asks the King to grant him mercy. He needs witnesses to his repentance!
- His words express what every offender wishes to say to the one that they have offended. "Do not let my lord impute iniquity to me."
- Shimei didn't want David to consider his actions or to charge his account as a guilty man. He asks David to "forget the wrong" that he did on that day when he left Jerusalem.
- "Don't let it bother your heart." He was out of his mind. He didn't mean it like he said it. He was caught up in the moment.
- What plaintive pleas, all of which speak to the desire to have lived a different way and to have our record expunged in the most critical of moments.
- He readily admits his guilt as a sinner and begs David for mercy because he does not want to face his wrath.
- Can you not see the proud person in life shun the King of Kings today because of their current state of affairs? Where is He now? He is not calling for an account. I can live any way I'd like!
- Oh, but when the King returns, the heart hasn't changed, but there is no desire to be judged!
- Can you not hear the tenor of their voice change as they realize He is who He says He is? How many Shimei's will stand in their pride hoping to give God a piece of their mind from a distance?
- Someday, they will stand before Him and I expect that their voices will echo what Shimei models. "I know that I have sinned. I have come short. I have wronged you."
- To be honest, true repentance happens in a much less public manner. Shimei is doing what he must do to remain alive. Shimei has been forced into this confession.
- But feigned or not, Abishai is still bent on justice. Verse 21.
• II Samuel 19:21-23 : "But Abishai the son of Zeruiah answered and said, 'Shall not Shimei be put to death for this, because he cursed the Lord’s anointed?' And David said, 'What have I to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah, that you should be adversaries to me today? Shall any man be put to death today in Israel? For do I not know that today I am king over Israel?' Therefore the king said to Shimei, 'You shall not die.' And the king swore to him." : Shimei had cursed the King in front of all the King's host.
- His words were blasphemous, libelous, and wholly false. His actions spoke of his hatred for the King and his intolerance for his existence! "Should he not be put to death for this?"
- Abishai always gave in to this answer and any other King would have agreed. But his next phrase really shows that he knows nothing of this King! He had cursed the Lord's annointed!
- "David, he cursed you and you are the Lord's annointed! That can't be forgiven!" David must have wondered about Abishai.
- He had been willing to kill the Lord's annointed, Saul, when David stayed his hand. Now, if David is the Lord's annointed, shouldn't he be the one reccomending death?
- That isn't David's heart on this day. "What have I to do with you?" The NLT renders it, "Who asked your opinion." The HCSB says, "Do we agree on anything?"
- What a warning! We can spend time with the godliest people on Earth and never take on the character that they exemplify for us!
- We can read the word of God and allow it to become our memory, but lack the heart to heed it when the emotions rise. Abishai was right according to the world's standard.
- Shimei did deserve to die but David won't have anything to do with it on this day! He is being restored to his rightful place. This is a day of celebration, not retribution!
- He looks at Abishai with genuine bewilderment and says, "Why should you be my adversaries?" Why would you stand on the opposite side seeking execution and not celebration?
- The word that David uses for "adversaries" is Satan!  What a statement to make!?
- Why should you be on the side of Satan and call for Shimei's death! That is what Satan has always represented. He is our adversary according to I Peter 5:8.
- Like Abishai, day and night, relentlessly, Satan calls out for what the believer deserves. And like David, Jesus stands in the way!
- David knew who he was by the grace of God and looked at Shimei and said "You shall not die!" He said and swore to him!
- Shimei wasn't going to die and it wasn't because he didn't deserve it, but because the King swore it! Shimei's life was bound up in the promise of the King himself.
- As long as he lived, that promise would stay in effect. We'll discover later on that Shimei was still a rebel, but on this day, Shimei is given a second chance at life.
• II Samuel 19:24 : "Now Mephibosheth the son of Saul came down to meet the king. And he had not cared for his feet, nor trimmed his mustache, nor washed his clothes, from the day the king departed until the day he returned in peace." : Shimei had offended David, but Mephibosheth's actions were far more personal. Mephibosheth slowly made his way to the King. Upon first glace, he was a wreck.
- Physically, he had neglected the care of his feet, referring likely to specialized bandages that had remained unchanged. He appeared disheveled in his face and his clothes were filthy.
- The author tells us that that was how he had been living since the King had departed until that very day. He was mentally every bit as traumatized as he had looked physically.
• II Samuel 19:25-28 : "So it was, when he had come to Jerusalem to meet the king, that the king said to him, 'Why did you not go with me, Mephibosheth?' And he answered, 'My lord, O king, my servant deceived me. For your servant said, ‘I will saddle a donkey for myself, that I may ride on it and go to the king,’ because your servant is lame. And he has slandered your servant to my lord the king, but my lord the king is like the angel of God. Therefore do what is good in your eyes.  For all my father’s house were but dead men before my lord the king. Yet you set your servant among those who eat at your own table. Therefore what right have I still to cry out anymore to the king?'" : Ziba and his sons and servants had met David at the Jordan. They made sure to make their appearance to solidify David's support.
- Here, back in Jerusalem, David gives Mephibosheth the chance to answer without holding Ziba's information against him.
- Mephibosheth tells the story that Ziba betrayed him. He had announced to Ziba that he would prepare a donkey for himself to ride.
- Ziba beat him to it and rode out before Mephibosheth could finish his preparations, then, lied about Mephibosheth to the King. What is Mephibosheth to do? It's his word against Ziba's.
- He resigns himself to David's character, which he likens to an angel of God.
- The woman from Tekoa used this phrase in chapter 14. It speaks of a person who is able to discern what is right between difficult choices.
- Mephibosheth confesses that he trusts the King to be able to discern what is right with regard to his case. "Whatever is good in your eyes, do that."
- The true innocence of a man is seen in his willingness to trust the Lord with his case, to know that He knows best. Mephibosheth is an example of that to us. But how can he be so trusting?
- Mephibosheth knows what his life was like before David sought him out. Do you remember? He was living in an isolated state, in Lo-Debar! Saul's family wasn't living high on the hog!
- They were living hand to mouth, on the virge of extinction before David extended his gracious hand to Mephibosheth. Therefore, he leaves his case with David who has proven himself gracious.
• II Samuel 19:29,30 : "So the king said to him, 'Why do you speak anymore of your matters? I have said, ‘You and Ziba divide the land.’ Then Mephibosheth said to the king, 'Rather, let him take it all, inasmuch as my lord the king has come back in peace to his own house.'" : David is at least convinced that he has been too hasty but he's already given the estate to Ziba. The only fair thing to do is to divide the estate.
- This may also be a bit of a test. If Mephibosheth had sought to destroy Ziba's image or to cut Ziba out entirely, it would have revealed a heart consistent with Ziba's claim.
- Mephibosheth proves by his statement that he wasn't out for personal gain. He has no interest in having the property. In fact, he says, "Let him have it!" Why would he want it?
- The King has come back to his home in peace! Where do you think that Mephibosheth is going to spend most of his time?
- Does your heart not speak to you in the same way? Why fight over what we can't keep anyway when we can have the presence of the King Himself!
- Mephibosheth isn't going to waste time thinking about a dispute. He just wants to be back with the King. He valued the restoration of his relationship with David over any piece of property!
• II Samuel 19:31,32 : "And Barzillai the Gileadite came down from Rogelim and went across the Jordan with the king, to escort him across the Jordan. Now Barzillai was a very aged man, eighty years old. And he had provided the king with supplies while he stayed at Mahanaim, for he was a very rich man." : We were introduced to this man back in chapter 17 without any backstory.
- We knew he was a man of means because he brought supplies for all of the King's people. We knew that he was a man of compassion, as he responded to the people's hunger and thirst.
- Here, as he escorts the King across the Jordan, we discover that Barzillai was an 80 year old man on that very day. He has everything a man could dream of having and the King's favor.
• II Samuel 19:33-37 : "And the king said to Barzillai, 'Come across with me, and I will provide for you while you are with me in Jerusalem. But Barzillai said to the king, 'How long have I to live, that I should go up with the king to Jerusalem? I am today eighty years old. Can I discern between the good and bad? Can your servant taste what I eat or what I drink? Can I hear any longer the voice of singing men and singing women? Why then should your servant be a further burden to my lord the king? Your servant will go a little way across the Jordan with the king. And why should the king repay me with such a reward? Please let your servant turn back again, that I may die in my own city, near the grave of my father and mother. But here is your servant Chimham; let him cross over with my lord the king, and do for him what seems good to you.'" : David wants to bless Barzillai, to treat him as his guest for the rest of his life.
- Barzillai had gone out of his way and had been a tremendous help from the Lord. It was only right that David return that blessing now that he was back home.
- Barzillai's is incredibly forthright and honest, as are most men of such advanced age! There's no time for him to come to Jerusalem!
- He's 80 that day and doesn't know a good day from a bad day! He can't taste anything, his hearing is gone. Everything that the King would try to repay him with would be wasted on him!
- He's looking forward to heading back home and living out what little time he had left with his family and among his people.
- Barzillai graciously turns him down, but looks over at Chimham, most likely his son, whose name means "longing" or "languishing" and seeks the King's favor for him.
- Barzillai was longing for his own home, but Chimham was longing for life in Israel, in God's country! "Do for him what seems good to you for his sake David."
- Whatever favor or blessing that would have been Barzillai's could be bestowed upon Chimham and the King is happy to have it this way. Verse 38.
• II Samuel 19:38,39 : "And the king answered, 'Chimham shall cross over with me, and I will do for him what seems good to you. Now whatever you request of me, I will do for you.' Then all the people went over the Jordan. And when the king had crossed over, the king kissed Barzillai and blessed him, and he returned to his own place." : We'll discover in a few chapters that Barzillai's family were frequent quests at Solomon's table. (I Kings 2:7)
- Additionally, it's believed that David gave Chimham a plot of land in Bethlehem and he built a caravansery, what would later be called an "inn" for travelers that would come into town.
- The style seen throughout that region featured central courtyard and animal stables throughout the perimeter.
- According to Jeremiah 41:17, his family still owned it at the beginning of the Babylonian captivity. Scripture even notes their return to Israel after the captivity! (Ezra 2:61, Nehemiah 7:63)
-  It's not a stretch to imagine that Chimham's family inn was still there when a young pregnant lady and her betrothed rode up in the difficult straits of labor!
- Could the ultimate Son of David have been born in Chimham's inn? We'll have to wait to get to heaven to find out.
- When Barzillai last looked upon his son, he was walking across the Jordan into a new life. The King had kissed and blessed him, but he returned to his own place with great joy for his son.
- Imagine what kind of life he would have with the King! Imagine what his children will see there in Israel! Imagine if it was his inn that gave hospitality to the King of Kings!
- Barzillai could never have known the legacy that he passed on to his son by sending him across the Jordan to live near David.
Conclusion
- For the Shimei in all of us, let us engage in true repentance, not for the fear of judgment, but for the sake of the love of Christ.
- We live today before Him, not because of our worth, but because of His promise. He stands between our adversary and defends us for His sake. Let us respond to our sin accordingly.
- For the Mephibosheth, let us humbly bring our cases to the Lord and entrust Him with the outcome. He's been so incredibly gracious to us. We don't deserve another kind thing.
- But unlike David, our King sees perfectly and will reward righteously. Let us trust Him and be satisfied that we are in a right relationship to Him.
- Finally, for the Barzillai, the aged man who couldn't stand aside, who had to continue using his resource for the sake of the King even to the age of 80, look now at the fruit.
- Chimham stands as an enduring recipient of the King's grace throughout the ages. Barzillai may have been too old to cash in, but his son enjoyed a heritage in God's land.
- If your faithfulness to God would yield such a thing, what better blessing could there be had than that?